What A Woman Should Not Do
On-Line dating can be a very effective way to meet quality men. However there are a few “rules” that women should take heed to if they don’t want to turn off a potential mate, especially one they are interested in.
After you have written a great profile, and uploaded the most gorgeous picture of yourself you have, when the responses start rolling in, don’t blow it by not following these very simple rules. First, don’t give out too much information in the beginning. Be interesting, but don’t tell or write your entire life’s history on the first talk or email.
If, for example, you are fortunate to have children (I believe children are truly a blessing), and are asked about them, tell their names and ages and sex. Don’t volunteer that little Johnny is ADHD and wets in the bed every night. Believe me, you will have ample opportunity to discuss more detail of your life, if the guy calls you back again. If any other questions are asked, answer them, and ask the guy the same question, so that he can share himself with you.
For every question he asks you, you should ask one of him. Nothing turns a man off like a long-winded woman who just doesn’t know when to be quiet or how to listen.
Never, ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a host of other things in their online profiles. That is a huge mistake.
If you are tempted to tell little “white lies” on your profile, when you do meet someone you enjoy, the chances of developing a relationship, or even a friendship might not happen. Don’t blow any chances you have of developing a meaningful relationship by saying or writing untruths about yourself.
Don’t be too eager. It makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off. They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest.
I don’t mean play hard-to-get. I mean, don’t push for a face-to-face meeting. I do mean don’t email them or IM them too frequently. Remember, play it safe and play it cool.
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